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Put the garlic and the chilli into the container of an electric blender with 3 T of water. Blend them together until you have a smooth paste. Empty the paste into a small bowl. Add the ground cumin, coriander, and turmeric. Mix together thoroughly.
Heat the oil in a frying pan or saute pan over a medium flame. When it is hot, put in cumin seeds. As soon as the cumin seeds begin to sizzle (this happens within a few seconds), turn the heat down a bit and pour in the spice mixture from the small bowl. Stir and fry for about 1 minute.
Now put in the okra, salt, sugar, lemon juice and the remaining water. Stir to mix and bring to a gentle simmer. Cover tightly and cook on low heat for about 10 minutes or until the okra is tender. If your okra takes longer to cook, you might need a little more water.
posted by Donna Schakelaar